One stepdaughter age 14.
No kids of my own; suffering through infertility
1) if i could do it again…i wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone who had a kid and an exwife.
2) don’t try to be friends with the ex wife – What I didn’t know is the ex-wife resents me for getting in get way of any possibility of reuniting with the father of her child… Even though they were officially divorced. Because of my infertility – she reminds him that they share a bond which I will never have with him.
3) the ex wife will dangle the kid in front of your husband as a way to get money from him. Expect to pay for EVERYTHING…our lifestyle is cramped because the ex-wife can’t seem to afford anything. We pay child support, clothes, lunch money at school, saving for college, health insurance…need i go on?
I wished I had known all these things before getting into this relationship.